The process of building our own home for the first time has got me thinking about what the concept of “Home” means to me and to others and how different house styles and designs may influence that concept. In my case, I think childhood literature had a huge impact on my idea of how a real home should look and how it should feel. I would be very interested to know if other people feel the same? And if anyone else out there remembers movies for the houses featured rather than for the story lines? ‘Howard’s End’ and ‘Something’s got to Give’ are two that spring immediately to mind.
I suspect it was my first ‘encounter’ with Johanna Spyri’s ‘Heidi’ that led to my love of skylights and roof windows:
“Perhaps the loveliest moment of all that exciting day for Clara came when she and Heidi were in bed in the hayloft, and she found herself looking straight out to the starry sky. ‘Oh Heidi’, she cried, ‘it feels as if we were riding in a high sort of carriage right into heaven.‘”
I can still remember exactly where I was when I read that and my own bedroom seemed very conservative in comparison.
Needless to say, our new house will have several skylights.
The books in which I immersed myself as a child may also explain why I have always responded best to the traditional style houses most often found in Britain and the States. Growing up in fifties and sixties South Africa, we were bombarded with British and American literature and kept firmly away from our own.
I can admire modern, cubist, glass and steel houses for all the light and practicality they may offer: I am often awestruck by their cantilevered, engineered prowess, but I have absolutely no emotional resonance with them. I remain completely unmoved by size and grandeur and respond stubbornly only to what I perceive, completely subjectively, as charm. And when it comes to houses, charm for me translates into pitched roofs (further enhanced by attics and lofts), wood framed windows, preferably cottage-paned or sash chimneys, verandas, wind-vanes and porches. I admit to having a bit of a ‘thing’ about pitch and have just increased the slope of our new house by 5 degrees. I am suspicious of flat roofs and believe them to have a determined tendency to leak.
I was not born into one of these ‘English’ houses and did not grow up in one, but even as a child I would pick them out in my small South African coastal town and wonder what it would be like to live in them.
Not to say I didn’t grow up in a beautiful home. The daughter of an architect, I spent the first 11 years of my life in a lovely house designed by my father in the 1950ties to suit perfectly both the sub-tropical climate in which we lived and the property, an old quarry site, on which the house was built. In our small town, the house made a considerable statement in its day: It was the first home in East London to be built ‘back to front’ – that is, with the entertaining area and main garden facing away from the street. It was also one of the first houses to be built there with privacy in mind. Although the walls bordering the street were not particularly high, they were backed by dense shrubbery through which it was quite impossible to see. Apparently this was much discussed and the house became a destination for slow, Sunday afternoon drives.
It was the first house in town to have its own swimming pool and a ‘carport’ on the street. It had a name too; ‘Many Stones’ – a nod to the quarry site on which it was built. Although in those days there was no need for locked gates and electric fences, access was through a beautiful, custom-made wrought iron gate which I remember clearly to this day.
I remember a conversation with my father, not long before he died, in which he expressed surprise at the detail with which I recalled that home and garden. With hindsight I have also come to appreciate that my mother was a gifted gardener and the garden she created around that home, on only half an acre of multi-levelled, rocky ground was spectacular and a child’s paradise. Perhaps children experience houses and gardens more intensely than adults. A garden in not only admired, it is lived in and explored. In that garden, hideaways and secret dens were created under shrubs and in tree houses, a felled tree trunk became a crocodile, rope ladders and swings evoked the Swiss Family Robinson, while two elusive tortoises, a parrot in a courtyard, a menagerie of pets and a fish pond with stepping stones a dark, mossy grotto could keep children occupied for hours. That garden in that relatively small space offered way more interest and entertainment than acres of manicured lawn surrounded by tame flowerbeds could ever equal. My mother was ahead of herself and in another era may have been a landscape architect rather than a teacher.

View of the back garden with guest ‘rondavel’ on higher terrace. Rockery built from on site quarry stones.
I still remember the acute sense of shock in our household on hearing that a major highway was to be built right through our neighbourhood and that our house, being directly in its path, along with 6 others, was going to have to be demolished. It must have broken my parents’ hearts and still to this day, on the rare occasion I find myself back in East London, I can’t help driving down that crudely truncated little road to the edge of the chasm through which the freeway now runs and thinking about the magical place that once existed there and the loss my family experienced through its obliteration.

Daily Dispatch reporter interviewing my mother. The white, wrought iron bench in the centre of this photo is now in my garden.
Despite these surroundings, driving around that small town as a passenger in my mother’s car, I would still pick out the more English-looking houses and I would often comment on them and ask about them. There was one I remember particularly well. It was in St James Road in Southernwood, opposite the post office we often used. I believe it is now a nursing home which makes sense. It was huge and double-storied with gables, wings and chimneys. The fact that it was dark and looked cold didn’t bother me a bit. It looked exactly like a house I’d read about in a “June and Schoolfriend Annual” and all I wanted was to see inside it. I asked about it endlessly and my mother probably wondered why. These houses might have been pretty but they often faced south – the wrong way in the Southern Hemisphere – and were completely impractical either for the climate or the typical South African lifestyle. But such was the power of childhood literature and an active imagination, I dreamt of living in a double-storey house with a steeply pitched roof of slate, shingle, Broseley tile or even thatch, and cottage-paned windows. That sort of house exuded charm for me then and to a certain extent, exudes it still. My father, influenced by Frank Lloyd Wright, would have been horrified.
Charm in a house is an elusive quality. As ‘beauty lies in the eye of the beholder’, it is different things to different people. Despite all the alterations in the world, it is difficult to imbue an intrinsically ugly house with it. I came across a quote once, attributed to Laurie Lee, that described the human quality, but it lends itself just as well to buildings.
“Charm is the ultimate weapon, the supreme seduction against which there are few defences. If you’ve got it, you need almost nothing else…”
Anyone who has rounded a bend or crested a hill only to have their breath snatched away by the view of a beautiful house ahead will know exactly what this means.
Over the years I’ve become more comfortable with being South African in a changed political landscape, and though I’m still drawn to many English and American homes, I have come to love and appreciate many styles of old South African architecture just as much. The Cape Dutch architecture around Cape Town can hardly fail to appeal but more and more, it is the old farm houses I love with their wrap-around verandas, ‘tin’ roofs, creaky wooden floors and reluctant sash windows. The long drive from Johannesburg through the Karoo to Cape Town, has become so much more beguiling as a result; I wait for certain favourites to come into view. And if there is a windmill nearby, so much the better.
Well, we couldn’t find an old farmhouse into which we could ‘downsize’ in Johannesburg and most of the little houses with corrugated iron roofs that remain here are in parts of the city that are no longer comfortable. After looking long and hard for something to buy or renovate, we eventually decided that building would be our best option. My brief to the architect was just that; brief: An iron roof, wooden floors, sash windows, open plan. And then, because of the narrowness of the stand, double-storied. Bernard’s response was immediate and to the point: “A contemporary farmhouse”. That sounded like what we were looking for.